Saturday, June 13, 2009

Sila Jawab

If you are given two choices, and each choice comes with a great sacrifice, and you cannot choose both, and you also cannot not make a choice, how and what would you choose?
Soalan di atas adalah satu soalan hypothetical. Cuba bayangkan kat satu tahap dalam hidup kita, kita kena buat keputusan macam tu. Sanggupkah kita buat pengorbanan yang diperlukan? Sanggupkah kita hidup dengan keputusan yang dipilih kalau keputusan itu adalah keputusan yang salah? Is there right and wrong in the decision because the decision is yours, so it should be right, right?

Kalau aku tetiba kena hadapi benda ni, jujur aku kata memang aku taktau apa nak dibuat. Probably aku akan tepon sorang kawan aku yang sangat faham sifat aku dan rants kat dia. Pastu dia akan dengar dengan setia dan bagi pendapat dia. Maybe, after that I can make my decision. Kalau tak, aku akan cari sorang lagi kawan aku. Kalau pastu aku tak dapat keputusan lagi, aku akan cari lagi sorang kawan aku. Tapi yang pasti, aku memang tak boleh buat keputusan tanpa dengar pendapat orang walaupun benda tu pasal hidup aku.

Sesape yang rajin baca blog aku ni, kalau korang di tanya soalan kat atas, apa yang korang akan jawab? Sila jawab di ruangan komen ye....(dituju juga kepada encik silent reader hanzo)

6 comments:

hanzo said...

how would i choose?
-with great difficulty
what would i choose?
-either..cos theres no other options are there?..heh
(kenela bagi circumstance bagi soalan camni)

and about making sacrifices...im not sure myself...but this guy would probably help:

http://30sleeps.com/blog/2008/01/17/giving-up-everything/

p/s:ayat terakhir post ini membuat aku tersenyum ;)

DoT dOt DoT said...

owh, lupa mahu letak contoh....hehe

situasi: kereta eksiden...kat dalam kereta ada isteri dan anak....masa suntuk, boleh selamatkan salah sorang je.....

option A: selamatkan isteri, anak mati

option B: selamatkan anak, isteri mati

kat atas ni hanya la contoh....mybe detail-nya boleh jadi lain tapi situasi tetap sama, disuruh untuk pilih antara 2 benda atau perkara yang disayangi...tapi contoh kat atas ni split-second decision la....yg aku nak tanya, kalau yang kena fikir sampai hangus...

thx utk link tu....link yang diberi tu sangat menarik...

p/s:that's my intention :P

hanzo said...

okay,yang ni susah.
and it feels wrong to say one deserves life more than the other.

i think i know what u mean(or maybe not).maybe what makes making decisions so hard is the fear of regretting not choosing option B.what is certain is that i will never be able to tell the future to tell which is best so i can only have faith that the choice i made was the best...even if i messed up or made the wrong choice, i would have learned a lesson from it right?probably...

DoT dOt DoT said...

ahaha, memang susahkan...

yeah, maybe what u said about why making decisions is hard, is true. i mean, how many times in our life we regretted the choices we made? it's ok if it concerns only small, everyday things like shoes, route to take etc. but if it concerns a large part of our life, the regret might be unbearable;and this might leads to a bigger mess.

but stil, like you said, a person can only have faith that the decision he made is the best decision, and if he messed up he could learn a thing or two from it. as they say, learn from your mistakes.as for me, i believe only a strong person can make a wrong decision and stil can continue living as if his decision is right. but that's only an opinion



p/s: it feels good that i can have a good argument (if you may call it one) with sum1...hehe =)

hanzo said...

do you mean he's strong cos he's not affected much by the wrong decisions hes made?
as long as he accepts the mistakes hes made then,yeah,you can call him strong.cos if not,then he would be living in self denial and thats a much bigger problem.ive made plenty of mistakes and have my regrets but i choose to forget them and concentrate on the present.we all have our regrets but what we do with them is what really matters..


p/s: im glad you liked it :)

DoT dOt DoT said...

yup. dats basically what i meant.i mean, to accept that hes wrong, that hes made a mistake (maybe a huge one), and accept it as it is, regretting little (perhaps none at all), and continue living his life, it's just so amazing, i think. cos, sometimes in my life, i find it hard to forget the mistakes i made and the regrets that come with it (but somehow i managed to live on normally..heee). i guess what you said is right (at least to me)'we all have our regrets but what we do with them is what really matters'.



p/s:im glad you glad =)